Is there an end to the games she plays?
I wonder if she really understands, what is her motive? I wonder if she understands anything at all. I want to scream in her ear, or EARS if it helps more, until she hears the nonsense she doesn’t say! Over a month now since I have been able to hug my daughter, to see her eyes and one-of-a-kind smile. Even longer since I have given my son a high five and listened to his “rants” on the state of our govenment, to have his presence and know that even our distance never keeps us apart. Ex-wives are frustratingly ignorant women and lack a capacity to know what to give in life. They are takers, users of people, greedy and self absorbed. They ask for and get a divorce and then want more. Why a woman pretends to be self-sufficient is beyond me. They can’t really take care of themselves, they are complainers with no sense of life direction unless they are being given their means. Again I am needing to go through a dysfunctional legal system to fight to have a life with my children. I have to grudgingly fight an ex-wife one who cannot see through her irrational needs and her attempts to manipulate everything for her sense of “justice”. Somehow for some reason she wants me to “pay” because for her lack of judgement; a decision she made to divorce is back-firing hmmm, and the damned grass wasn’t greener. She listened to her shit-house lawyer friends about how she could make her life better and now she smells the essence of her life. Smells like compost I bet.
I really did know they wouldn’t come over.
Well on friday I waited for my children to come over for their visit, anxious, just as I knew I would be. 5:45 came and I hoped that at 6pm (the legal ETA,estimated time of arrival) or shortly there-after I would see them pull in the drive-way. Not at s6 not at 6:15, not at all. I wasn’t surprised, but I was more disappointed than I thought I would be. I had texted the EX and asked where they were? “they don’t want to come over” was her reply. My hope is that this doesn’t happen with frequency to other fathers. The sheriff’s department said it happens a lot. Why, when the evidence supports children needing two parents, does one parent always play the deviant god? I stayed home watched news over and over and fell asleep.
Saturday took a trip to Ocoee and Hiwasee rivers near Benton, TN. Went to look at potential hang gliding fly station. No active hang gliding going on, but the trip was wholesome and will be returning for future fun. I don’t know how but I will have to get my kids and probably have to do it through the broken legal system with crotchedy old judges who have been around too long, and lawyers who do little for the money they steal, yes STEAL from everyone’s pocket. I can say that because I have rarely met an attorney who does his job with the integrity one would expect with the fees they charge. So if ANYONE knows a moral attorney, prove me wrong. I REALLY want to find that gem.
Today the day of reckoning… in a way
Today is the day (again) that my two kids visit. I look forward every week to that short span of time I get to call mine. Each Friday (usually) I will legally get them for either a visit for the evening and night or I will get them for the weekend. These Fridays, I await with anxiety, always. You see, I cannot know if I will get them or not. It matters not that legally I should. My ex believes that for whatever reason she has devised in her mind, that I am to be persecuted for her decision to divorce me. Yes, she divorced me, yet somehow she believes I do not have a right to a visit each week. I believe I have a right to visit every day. Afterall, I did get that when we lived to gether. I was able every morning to wake them and every night kiss them as they lay down their heads, and I miss that…my heart and soul misses that. For now I will be waiting for 6pm to see if they are with me for the weekend.
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